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Clip Psychic Cords and Block Harsh Energies

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 February 28, 2017
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psychic_cordsPsychic cord – an emotional, energetic connection from one person to another that both gives and receives energy. It keeps one tied to another, even when one person doesn’t desire to be.

Pamela breaks up with Karl, an emotionally abusive man. She wants this jerk completely out of her life. She even moves to a different city so that he can’t find her, but thoughts of him intrude on a regular basis, and Pamela can’t get him “out of her head.”

What is going on?

This is a common issue for those who leave a relationship packed with intense, painful emotions. Pamela no longer desires a connection, but somehow, Karl still is there albeit in non-physical ways.

Now, his obnoxious presence in her head could be interpreted a lot of ways. She may have PTSD from the relationship, replaying his abuse mentally. She may have a great deal of fear that he may find her. But another way she could still be connected is by psychic cords.

We unconsciously create cords, both good and bad, with numerous people in our lives. These cords can keep us tied to others without having a physical connection with them. Through cords, we can give or drain energy from another, sometimes without having consciousness around that.

Most cords are acceptable and make for closer ties among friends, family, and extended family. The strongest cords are frequently between mother and child, and between lovers. It can also be with other family members, friends, or bosses.  Sexual involvement always creates a cord.

When cords are developed, psychic information is often passed back and forth. A simple aspect of this may be thinking of the other and the phone rings with her or him on the line. This can be a good thing, feeling “in sync” with others.

However, in cases like Pamela and Karl, having a psychic cord can range from annoying to downright overwhelming. Narcissists, bullies, and difficult parents can exercise toxic control over others by skewing their targets’ thoughts, creating a hell for those who want freedom from their psychic torture.

So, what is the answer?

Some think that cords cannot be severed with certain people due to karma, but I disagree.  If you have past life issues to deal with, and you don’t complete them this time around, those issues will return next time with or without the cord. So, I recommend that you cut them or have them cut now.

Cords can be difficult to cut, and if not done properly, can return. It’s more difficult than just snipping the cord. There are likely complications, such as it being painful to let go. (In many cases, there were good parts of the relationship, too.) You must be clear and hold firm to this being in your best interest.

Cord cutting can be done through a variety of ways.  Doing it for yourself is more of a challenge than if you have help, but it can be done.  It’s imperative to do your emotional work around the relationship.  You must first heal portions of the pain in your heart and mind.  The work I do with Compassionate Clearing is powerful for this snipping.

One powerful method:

  1. It’s important to be rested.
  2. Become grounded or centered, and see yourself rooted to Mother Earth.
  3. Call in your spiritual help, including your Higher Self, and explain your goal. (Archangel Michael is very helpful with cord cutting.)
  4. Call out the name of the one you are cutting loose.
  5. Visualize having a pair of scissors or some other sharp object for cutting the cord. (You could ask Archangel Michael to borrow his sword.)
  6. In your mind’s eye, take the cutter and carefully cut around your body. Say “So and so, I am cutting the bonds between us. I am releasing us both to our Higher Good. Go with God and move on.” For those sensitive to energies, the release will be felt, but not everyone will feel it. It doesn’t matter.
  7. Then pull the cord out of your body. It will likely be attached through one of the chakras, especially the genitals, the power chakra (solar plexus), the heart, or throat. Just ask yourself where you most often feel the pain of that relationship.
  8. Afterwards, seal the wounded area where the hooks were imbedded. You can use sacred oils such as sandalwood or frankincense to rub over the chakras. Or you can spray Rescue Remedy around the body and under your tongue.
  9. Ask your Divine Helpers to fill your auric field with golden Light, or protective energies, or whatever you call it.
  10. Thank them for their love and support.
  11. Relax and rest, allowing time for your body and soul to re-center.

Call me for an appointment if you would prefer to have help with this issue. 512-444-9777

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The 3 Fs of Relationship Roadblocks, part 3

Posted by CC_SiteManager on
 February 25, 2016
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F #3 – Fear

In this 3-part series, we’ve covered fantasy and fatigue. For the last article in this series, we’re going to tackle fear. Fear can kill love.

Most single people who want a relationship would deny that fear is an issue for them. However, in my private energy psychology practice, I see that fear of intimacy often rides underneath the surface for many who really want a partner and don’t have one. On an unconscious level, they are pushing away any possibility of attracting the right person.

Then, there are those who are in a relationship who seem bent on destroying it by picking fights. Why do we fight with our partners? I am talking about fights that blow like a hurricane into a peaceful day and leave us broken, exhausted, and confused as we wonder: What just happened?

These consuming and crazy-making fights are generally fueled by unspoken and unnamed fears. Because most of us do not like feeling scared, we have spent years developing strategies attempting to control our fear by squashing it or avoiding it. The problem is, fear does not like being forced out of town. This intense emotion may ride away for a while, but will come back with a posse, armed and ready to force us to hear it and take it seriously.

It is often in a marriage or committed intimate relationship that our fear returns, ready to avenge us for casting it out. We have treated fear as the enemy, so it goes into attack mode. Once there, fear is ruthless.

Fear attacks by pulling us into a dark and catastrophic drama where we become so panicked and terrified that we can’t ignore the fear any longer. For example, perhaps a woman has a deep fear about being isolated and lonely. When this fear hits her periodically, she keeps it inside, trying to push it away. Eventually, the fear that craves to be recognized fights back, spinning a tragic story that features her husband as the ‘losing interest’ spouse who will eventually leave. Her mind, now controlled by fear, gathers bits and pieces of information that confirm and support this story. Before she knows it, she’s at her confused, defensive partner’s throat.

I suggest you try EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) tapping to release the fear. You could do it in my office with me or on the phone, or try it yourself. To refresh your memory as to the tapping points, see my article Emotional Freedom Technique. Here is a protocol that may be helpful in working with the fear:

Even though I might not understand what holds me back from finding and staying in a fully loving relationship I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Even though I think I’m ready for a relationship, and it isn’t here, so I must not be ready, I forgive and honor myself.

ET some unknown thing is holding me back from having and keeping my desired relationship, I’m ready to move forward.

This fear I’m hiding from myself

I’m confused

I just don’t know

It’s so frustrating

Why do I pretend to myself I don’t know?

I’m so confused

I’m so frustrated

I just can’t seem to get it right

Even though I don’t have a healthy relationship (or any relationship), I completely love and accept myself

Even though I want to be emotionally healthy in a relationship, and I’m afraid, I forgive and honor myself.

Even though I’m struggling to keep (or create) a healthy relationship, I’m working on it right this minute.

This fear

This fear of being smothered, suppressed, limited, trapped or used

Fear of loss of control

Fear of abandonment or loss

Fear of rejection

Fear of being judged

Fear of responsibility or commitment

Fear of the unknown

After tapping on whatever comes to mind, end with a positive round:

I can do this

I welcome love into my heart

I am a courageous person

I love myself and I’m ready to love another.

I welcome the responsibility of integrity in a relationship

I forgive with ease and joy

My arms are open wide

I await the joy of loving.

There you have it. Give that a try. Emotional Freedom Technique is fun!

 

Robin Heart Shepperd, EFT practitioner
Austin, Texas
512-444-9777

Appointments available in person, by phone, or by Skype

 

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Reluctant Sex?

Posted by CC_SiteManager on
 January 18, 2016
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 Recently, a beautiful young man came to me with what he termed “intimacy problems.” He explained he was engaged to be married, and he loved his fiancé’ dearly. He said that they were compatible, and had been together for a long time.

The issue was erectile dysfunction. Health tests with the MD had checked out okay. Still, his problem was escalating and beginning to worry both him and his lady.

When he called for an appointment, I was expressly clear I’m not a psychotherapist. This suited him. He said therapy didn’t feel right for him.

Using various energy psychology clearing techniques, I moved through the issues. First, we cleared priority via Emotion Code. By that, I mean that I asked his Higher Self to show me what was foremost in importance to relieve his emotional distress. This was done with muscle testing. Then cleared the impact of those incidences that negatively affected him.

Next, using a different technique, we cleared ancient oaths and vows from former lives with his sweetheart, as those tend to follow us through lifetimes. We cleared any unknown curses they had made against one another in previous lives.

We followed that with EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique, to do tapping to remove the layers of his anxiety regarding re-engaging in sex, working toward a positive outcome. Finally, we talked strategy such as having sensuous evenings where no intercourse was allowed.

We had a second appointment and worked on clearing more emotions that stoked his anxiety and around the private things that had coalesced to create his issues in the first place. We did EFT tapping to remove some worries he had and to leave him feeling positive.

He emailed a few days later: “I’m so glad I met you. Jean and I have been intimate a couple of times, and we are very grateful for your help.”

I can’t create a perfect relationship for my clients. Only they have that power. However, with Compassionate Clearing sessions, I can take my magic eraser to clear stuff that is blocking them from experiencing more pleasure and deep intimacy with a partner. If you would like assistance with any aspect of difficulties with your lover or spouse, call to make an appointment for a session at 512-444-9777

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